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[tesla]

Why do people so frequently misuse homophones? "Tenants" (should have been "tenets") and "adverse" ("averse") both came up today, both used incorrectly by very literate folks. I suppose that I can understand doing this in a casual forum (e-mail to peers, etc.), but one of them was in a presentation to 50 people. I'm always surprised when people can't hear the difference between these words when they're spoken, and hence surprised when people use them incorrectly in either written or verbal forms.

What is the etiquette surrounding this? I'll certainly point out the one in the presentation, because the person involved will appreciate it. But in a business setting, when do people want to be corrected and when would they rather be humored? I typically err on the side of gentleness, because in my world right now, relationships are more important than absolute precision.


Mmm - 15-year Laphroaig. Yummy.

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[buttonlass.livejournal.com]

I find that most people don't mind the correction after the fact, so long as it's not in front of others.

The real problem is that by then they have already erred so it's to late to really do any good. I have however found that most people don't notice errors like we do. I think their brains just insert the right word and it gets glossed over, or ,alternately, they would have made the same mistake themselves.

I have for the most part given up on telling people. Most of the errors I see are by my professors and I usually don't see any gain in correcting them.:)

[kalmn.livejournal.com]

my ex says "artesian" when he means "artisan" *every* *single* *time*. when i divorced him, i gave up correcting him. ;)